FPCM_GET_SWREMOTE
FPCM_PUT_SWREMOTE

struct SFPCGetSWRemote
{    
    // [in, out]
    LPTSTR lpszBuffer;
    DWORD dwBufferSize;

    // [out]
    HRESULT hr;
};


struct SFPCPutSWRemote
{
    // [in]
    LPCTSTR lpszBuffer;

    // [out]
    HRESULT hr;
};

void GetSWRemote(HWND hwndFlashPlayerControl)
{
    SFPCGetSWRemote info;

    info.lpszBuffer = NULL;

    ::SendMessage(hwndFlashPlayerControl, FPCM_GET_SWREMOTE, 0, (LPARAM)&info);

    if FAILED(info.hr)
        // Error
    {
        return;
    }

    info.lpszBuffer = (TCHAR*)LocalAlloc(LPTR, info.dwBufferSize * sizeof(TCHAR));

    ::SendMessage(hwndFlashPlayerControl, FPCM_GET_SWREMOTE, 0, (LPARAM)&info);

    if FAILED(info.hr)
        // Error
    {
        // ...
    }
    else
        // OK
    {
        ::MessageBox(NULL, info.lpszBuffer, _T("Result"), MB_OK);
    }

    LocalFree((HLOCAL)info.lpszBuffer);
}


void PutSWRemote(HWND hwndFlashPlayerControl, LPCTSTR SWRemote)
{
    SFPCPutSWRemote info;

    info.lpszBuffer = SWRemote;

    ::SendMessage(hwndFlashPlayerControl, FPCM_PUT_SWREMOTE, 0, (LPARAM)&info);

    if FAILED(info.hr)
        // Error
    {
        // ...
    }
    else
        // OK
    {
        // ...
    }
}